Quit being an ass. Your attitude is making things 10 times harder than they have to be. Yes, I AM taking advantage of your offer to pay for things for the kids (on top of the generous child support you give me). I feel that since you have checked out of their lives (80% by choice and 20% by circumstance) you can pay for whatever they need. And that shit you said about how they told you I said you have all the money. Lies. I’m not in the mood. You are not my concern. Your feelings are not my concern. If I ask you to pay for something, don’t give me a diatribe about how I am being a money grubbing bitch, just say yes or no. I’m not going to go to the kids and say “No, your dad won’t pay for it.” That’s not who I am. Get over yourself. I’m tired of your accusations and innuendo. Move on.