Imagine for a moment if you can take off those labels, if you didn’t know what label you were? What if everything was acceptable? Who would you love?
Love has been put into these narrow categories, the frustration from this practice an irritant to many. If I could give you one dare, it would be to take off one label and let your boundaries fall. How may people would you love and be loved by if your choice of partners wasn’t limited by number or sex?
Of course, being able to take off those labels takes an incredible amount of maturity most of us don’t have when it comes to our sex life. It takes self-realization about what you can handle and what you cannot. Just because are comfortable and can date more person at once, does not mean that your partner can. Or maybe sex with more than one person might sound like a cheap porn fantasy to you, but your partner may find that to be natural and exciting.
All I am saying, is that limits in your sexual life are artificial and imposed before you even reached your sexual maturity. I sincerely doubt this post will encourage you to throw off a lifetime of sexual fetters, but I certainly would like everyone to at least THINK about it.
Each one of us want to be true to ourselves, and our self identity is important. Sexual identity is a big part of the self identity, and I am not making light of such a thing. Nor am I nowhere near qualified to suggest your are not the label you were assigned, I am merely saying there are many labels. Try another one for size, and realize that most are artificially placed upon us.
A self- help saying that goes around a lot is; “What would you do if you knew you could not fail?”
Well, my question is, “Who would you love if you knew no one would judge you?”
Until next Saturday!